Я убежден, что своего любимого человека нужно любить за 10 лет до встречи с ним.
Онлайн-передача Дмитрия Сорока «Женщина глазами мужчины». Выпуск №1. В гостях у Дмитрия проф. Н.И. Козлов и его жена, психолог Марина Смирнова.
How to find your person - one or the one with whom you want to live for many years, wake up every morning, hold hands together and know that this is the closest person to you?
The first is to believe that such a person is, that you need such a miracle and you should look for such a person. The second is to start an active search. The third is to look for the one you want, the person that suits you. We’ll talk about this here.
Do all women ask themselves this question - who do they marry? Often it seems that telling women that you need to include your head when you get married is an empty business. While you tell, the women listen, they write everything down, and then they fall in love or stop thinking, or they marry with fear: because they are afraid that this man is her only opportunity, and the other will not take it. And when a woman is afraid, all reasonable considerations come out of her head. Then she finds herself next to this strange masculine creature, which is in no way located to earn money. And now he thinks - and what should I do? I got a refrigerator, but it does not work.
To look for someone you need and have the opportunity to understand: this person is right for you or not, it is useful to use the following internal tools.
Filter "Magnet - Native - Strain - Necessary - Family". If you care about yourself, you will look for the person that suits you. You are drawn to a person, he is a native, he is equal to you, he is needed in life, he is oriented to the family: we take it! As for falling in love, falling in love can help you as well as prevent you from building up future relationships.
Model "Functions of a husband and wife." If you care about who you are going to live with, you think about how you approach him. Being a wife is a certain, difficult job. It means being able to be a friend, a mistress, a housewife, a visiting card, a mother, an assistant in her husband’s affairs ... It’s useful to think about all this.
Tips: How to find out who is next to you? Watch and figure is important, but the most reliable test of your fantasies is a test of life. How to do it? How do you know who is next to you?
It is equally important to know what you will offer in return. Think about it: you found your man, you met him. And why should he be interested in you, what can you offer him in return? What are you standing in the marriage market?
If you live not only with feelings, if you know how to control yourself and answer for yourself, if there are values for you besides your needs, you can have another love: love as a choice, commitment and dedication.
Today I teach people all the wisdoms of relationships and put them thinking in the framework of the University of Practical Psychology. On the one hand, this is a two-year professional training of coaches, consultants and coaches, on the other - it’s two years of personal development and obtaining important psychological skills. I work there personally.
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