Отработка женственности - большое дело и работа непростая.
At the women’s trainings there’s a popular slogan: "Discover the femininity!" It is assumed that in every woman there is femininity, she only sleeps in her, and if she is awakened (an option - she is clogged in it, and if you just lose control and relax), the woman will immediately become feminine! Unfortunately, it is not.
In the growing girl, femininity in ready-made form is not laid, nowhere, in any place. If a woman has never seen examples of femininity and has not learned anything from this variant of behavior, she has nothing to look for in herself and discover in herself. There is another: the girl saw interesting samples of femininity, once tried and developed them, and then for some reason stopped doing it and now is afraid of behaving this way. In this case - yes, much can be profitably recalled, and in this sense - to discover femininity in oneself.
In any case, femininity is a certain style of internal and external behavior, and femininity can be developed in the same way as any skill.
To work out feminine behavior:
• Do not act like a man, even if you are heading your own company. Let the men open the door for you. Remain a woman. Do not let go of sarcastic jokes. Do not laugh at jokes, slapping your hands on your knees. So you can act with your girlfriends. But with a man you have to be calm and mysterious, to behave like a true lady, to sit cross-legged and smile. Do not talk too much. Put on black transparent pantyhose and raise the skirt higher to seduce the opposite sex!
• Learn the gait from the hip.
• Change your makeup and style in clothes (choose bright and expressive things, thick sweaters replace with suits and blouses, pants - on skirts).
• Learn to speak the literary language; especially, take care not to use slang and verbal expressions.
• Allow yourself to be weak and helpless 1-3 times a day.
• Flirting with everyone, and also "build eyes" at least 3 men a day.
• Collect a collection of photos of models and actresses for the subsequent analysis of poses, clothes and make-up.
• Get used to the image of a woman in all situations and with all people.
You do small throats - never drink in one gulp! - and let the man learn something about you, and not vice versa. Your answers are short, understandable and seductive. Your gestures are gentle and feminine. When the hair falls on your face, you throw your head back and comb your hair with your fingers from the crown with slow, smooth movements.
All your movements - the way you apologize, go out to the ladies’ room or look at the clock at the end of the meeting - are smooth and sexy. You can take care of yourself. You do not lie in bed in a black depression, do not eat cakes, nervous before a date. You just took a bath with foam, read this book and experienced several positive slogans:
- I am a beautiful woman. I am completely self-sufficient.
Watch for the ecological behavior of your behavior - do not work out femininity on your boss.
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