Автор: Елена Роулингс-Смит,
Университет практической психологии

Female type of communication

​​​​​​​​​​​​​To speak logically, to express a thesis is an important and necessary skill that will be useful to anyone who wants to be successful. Nevertheless, most people do not communicate perfectly. In particular, women have mastered special logic in the process of evolution and continue to improve this type of thinking, and there is something useful in this.

Psychologos defines: "Women’s logic is a way of thinking and talking, where logic gives way to impulsiveness and feelings." Indeed, women tend to speak more emotionally, recalling a large number of details, sometimes overdoing with digressions. Women sin by a leap of ideas. But is it always with women’s logic elements that is less effective than men’s?

What is the logic of man’s logic? The man sees the goal and goes to her as short as possible. He thinks structurally. In women, it’s different. If a woman knowingly knows the destination, and is certain that she will definitely get there, then the trajectory is of secondary importance (see the picture). A woman is not so important, how many extra words she will use, she does not consider them superfluous. Expressing her thoughts, a woman enjoys the process, especially when the interlocutor looks at her tenderly and listens with a smile.

In fact, any woman, when she includes a female type of communication (as opposed to the male "thesis-justification-withdrawal"), acts as a real expert of speech influence, leading a speech trance to the interlocutor. Female tricks lull the vigilance of men, men in a trance state do what the woman wants from them.

But at once I will make a reservation - in my opinion, it is necessary to divide a woman’s speech aimless and female speech with the realized purpose. Sometimes a lady broadcasts just to broadcast (the goal is to get a dose of attention, to give demonstrateness, and for this the speech text is not at all important). But when a woman keeps the goal of the conversation in mind, she can spin and rotate as many times as she likes, until the person does what she needs.

It is thanks to women’s logic that we sometimes talk for a very long time, not being afraid that the thought will end. It can not end if it was not originally there. That is, there was no clearly formulated thesis and structure, but there was a plan. I think this skill can be useful not only in everyday life, but also in professional communication - consultants and trainers, including.

Do not underestimate the value of women’s logic and fight with it. To become a good practical psychologist, you just need to learn new ways of communication, expand the range of techniques that you own, learn differently. Speak tezisno, having in stock, including female logic. Then success will inevitably come!

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