Автор: Э.В. Гончарова, психолог, коуч
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Find yourself

At the moment it has become very fashionable to look for yourself. Look into yourself deeper and discover your true desires.

Some cunning "experts" are very active in indulging these desires and promise to help the sufferers in their search: immerse them in themselves and discover that there are untold treasures.

My friends, I can believe that someone is capable of immersing you in yourself, I can even believe that you are able to stay there and rummage in search of treasure. But I, do not live, I do not believe that you will find there what you did not put there, or did not put your parents there, or those people with whom you have long and tightly communicated.

I can not believe, because I have studied nature for a long time and I know what and how it gets into a person.

Want to find yourself, see - with whom you communicate, what you read or see how you act. And you will not need trainings to find yourself. Everything is already on the surface.

Do you go in contact and read any nonsense? That’s what you are: a man reading all sorts of nonsense, wasting his time. Do you go to concerts of classical music and are interested in the activities of great composers? That’s what you are: a person who wants to learn deeply the sacrament of music.

`Watch trash shows? You will find it in yourself. Haite their parents, that they suppressed you will and instilled children’s complexes? Expectations will not keep you waiting - slackness and incompleteness will bloom in your soul with a violent color. And no matter how you try to look deeper inside yourself, nothing you do not inherent and secret from you you will not dig out.

What can be considered as a conditionally, it is necessary to create and build, and, sometimes, from the full zero if long bats were fired. And instead of this understandable work, you suddenly took and announced the "search for yourself."

Do not listen to these tales!

Find yourself nowhere is impossible, you are nowhere hidden and lost, you - here they are in all the glory of their pastime.

Want to see yourself different? Do you want to find yourself? Change your pastime and you, newly found, will appear to the world. How do you want to be? To whom like? Choose any and do the same as this person does. Step by step, step by step, and you get closer to the desired image - find yourself!

The good news is that the person is plastic. And at every second you can find a new self: yesterday you fooled and lied, and today you decided to take responsibility. Congratulations! You found a new self! Yesterday you were afraid to take a decision and take a step into a new life, and today you gathered yourself in a fist and went ahead! Congratulations! You found a new self! Yesterday you were not interested, you were sour and rotten, and today you took and appointed your interest, your goal! Congratulations! You found a new self!

Found or done?

DO NOT LOOK FOR YOURSELF! DO YOURSELF!

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