I know one real answer to this question: the family is his personal project. His business, his world, his state: his universe, created according to his patterns. He built a city out of cubes as a child, and it was important for him to build the highest tower - the kind he wanted and what he dreamed of. And today he is building his world, his family, where his beloved woman will always be happy. He wants to create his own dynasty, wants to raise his daughter - bold, intelligent and beautiful, which he will admire - and his son - a real man who will be better than him, who will continue his spirit and his cause, which will bring up such children who will be even better than him and continue the work of his grandfather...
Designing and creating a world called a family are not passionate about all men, but if a man is expensive, he will build a family for his project. He will do as he wishes, or in any way. In his family will be his religion - or a ban on religion, because this is his project and his family. He will raise his son the way he wants, like a man, because only this is his son. In his family, children will bear his values, otherwise it is not his children. In his family will be his orders, or this family is his little interest.
You can call him a despot, but that s just his project. You want to do something in your own way, do it, but not here: here he is master. There is no disrespect for the woman: he is simply busy with his work, and if a woman wants to participate in this business, she can join it on a man's terms. And does not want it - it s her right: the man will only shrug his shoulders and will continue to work on his project.
Yes, but there are two people in the family? At least two? Right. Therefore, a man seeks a woman, seeks a woman, loves a woman - but real men live only with the woman who in his world will live on his terms.
Note that this is quite realistic: exactly because women are interested in the family - a lot, and men - less. And not just less, but for cities this ratio is somewhere 1 to 3. For one quality man interested in the Family with a capital letter, there are three women interested in a quality family. And at such a ratio, under such conditions, women are already ready for almost everything - and this is wise, considering that we are talking about well-off - and wealthy - men.
The man will be the head of the family. And if a woman does not agree with this, soon there will be one in her place who will agree with this. This is reality, and there is no more injustice here than in the fact that men still die before women. This is not fair, but life is arranged just like that.
Dear men! If you are a man, you will look for a woman who can understand your project, accept your project and together with you to realize your project. But if you are real men, that is, people who are loving and respectable, you must warn the woman in advance about what is ahead of her.
"I really like you, you are my joy and my song, but if you want to contact me seriously, I want to warn you that it will be very difficult for me." If you want a normal man and a family that is normal by today’s standards, you do not need me, but someone else: I am very hard and exacting in life, I have very specific views on the family and the upbringing of children, and I do not plan to change them. Therefore, I propose to discuss the family contract questionnaire And together think: Do you need such a difficult person as I am?"
This is an honest warning. And, it seems, a good way to find a woman who needs you!