Автор: Э.В. Гончарова, психолог, коуч
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The main secret of successful people

"Если вы хотите иметь то, что никогда не имели, вам придется делать то, что никогда не делали". Коко Шанель, французский модельер, основавшая модный дом Chanel и оказавшая существенное влияние на моду XX века.

One of the main secrets is that the winners in life actively use words that excite in them the energy of success!

Do you want to know these words and take them into service? Valuable information at your service! I propose to focus your attention on such a magical word from the winners in life as a "task".

How often do you use this word in your life?

Listen..

Unfortunately, for unsuccessful people the word "problem" often sounds. And the more often they repeat it in a mournful voice, the further they slide into the pit of failure.

Words program our mood and our behavior. Psycholinguistics is a very cool thing! And whoever owns it, it turns out in its life results far ahead.

The influence of words we can use, as something very useful and powerful in our life, and we can, by ignorance, use to harm. At the same time, causing this harm to yourself daily, methodically, assiduously.

Therefore, I repeat once again for all those interested in psycholinguistics: successful people in the speech arsenal have only the word "task", the word "problem" in their arsenal is missing.

There is a problem !!

If a person uses the word "problem", then he provokes him to ask himself the following questions: what is the problem, what is the reason, why did this happen, who is to blame ... It forces us to waste time ... to waste the problem.

What is the purpose of the word "task"?

To the habit of accompanying any situation with such questions as: what task is now before me, how this problem is best solved, what benefits this situation brought me - what new in its decision I learned, what discoveries did, what skills I developed.

This approach makes it possible to effectively accumulate your experience: it teaches you to focus not on what is bad, what is difficult, what is impossible, but on what is good here, what to use, what needs to be tightened up.

The task makes you look ahead and actively design the future.

Let’s look at an example: a girl is not the most beautiful appearance. How does the problem sound: I’m ugly, so I have something .. and then ... and then ... How does the task sound: what do I need to do to make an attractive attractive image out of my appearance?

Or: I could not get a good education, so I have ... then ... and then. The task: do I need to upgrade my skills in a certain field, what do I need to do?

The developed approach to "voice the task" includes the search mode of the brain. And you can rest assured, friends, the brain will find the right solution!

Therefore, we want to be successful? We learn a very simple way - we remove the word "problem" from the verbal arsenal and use it always, in every situation only the word "task": what kind of task is before me now ?!

Friends, what is before you now a task or even tasks?

Think ... Formulate ... Act!

Psycholinguistics is not only a knowledge of how words affect us, they are concrete results of applying this knowledge to wise people.

The formulated task is a command to our brain, it is a rush of energy, it is throwing in the necessary hormones and neurotransmitters into the body.

Formulate!

And remember one more secret: ENERGY IS UNDER THE TASK!

Mental energy can not be saved. It can only be aroused.

Excite!

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